Etiqueta: love yourself

Oh love ofc it’s ok to talk to me. I’m sorry for only getting back to you now but I’m traveling and don’t have much access to the internet. I know where you’re coming from and I totally understand. However we tend to always be our biggest critics and we end up judging ourselves so hard because of “what we expect to see when we look at ourselves”. Why did you expect seeing something else? Is it because of porn or what you think is beautiful? Is it because you and I are in a society that portrays beautify and sexuality in such a fucked up way especially for women? Probably 😅 Listen. At risk of being cliché, I’m gonna tell you that beauty is a very wide spectrum. Beauty isn’t just what you’ve been thought it is, it is so much more and so much deeper especially when it comes to love, sexuality and relationships. Beauty is inside + outside + they eyes of the ones that love you + your love for yourself (in my humble opinion). You’ll grow and live and learn so much about yourself and others and you’ll meet the people that will look at just what you saw and think it’s the most amazing thing in the whole world. One last thing, don’t place your will to live in others. Learn to love yourself and find joy in being yourself. Don’t place your frustrations on ‘someone is never gonna love me’ if you haven’t even given yourself a good chance at love you. 💜